The 3 R's by Penny Simpkin


Preparation with the stress and pain of labor, might wish to incorporate the concept of the 3 R’s in their childbirth Childbirth educators who want to distill their teaching to cover the most meaningful ways of coping of pace seems necessary. disturbing it throws her off. Most women change their ritual from time to time in labor, when a change Once a woman finds a ritual, she depends on it for many contractions. Changing the ritual or (“conducting”); she focused entirely on the partner’s ring with its blue stone as her guide. • another let her breathing follow the rhythm of her partner’s hand moving up and down contraction. pattern: each breath represented a stroke of her oar, helping her to “glide smoothly” through the • another, who had rowed crew in high school, used a visualization in conjunction with her breathing and moaning while her partner pressed on her low back. • another dealt with her back pain by leaning on the bathroom sink, swaying rhythmically from side beyond the number of breaths that meant the halfway point in the contraction. • another wanted her partner to count her breaths out loud and point out to her when she was • another wanted her partner to rub her lower leg lightly up and down in time with her breathing. • another rocked in a rocking chair in rhythm with her own pattern of breathing. during the contractions. • one woman felt safe and cared for when her mother brushed her long, straight hair rhythmically Following are some examples of unplanned spontaneous rituals discovered by laboring women: concentration, such as other people talking to them or doing procedures on them during contractions. from restrictions on their mobility and their vocal sounds and are also free from disturbances to their Women are most likely to find their own coping style when they feel safe and supported, and are free women may become upset and stressed. disturbed in their ritual or prevented from doing the things they have found to be helpful, laboring well usually do more than that; they discover their own rituals spontaneously in active labor. If While women draw heavily on the coping measures they learned in childbirth class, those who cope every contraction. 3) they find and use rituals, that is, the repeated use of personally meaningful rhythmic activities with 2) the use of rhythm characterizes their coping style; vital, however, that they relax or be calm between contractions; better if they move or vocalize during the contractions, or even tense parts of their bodies. It is however, many women cope much better if they don’t try to relax during contractions. They feel In early labor relaxation during contractions is a realistic and desirable goal; later in labor, 1) they are able to relax during and/or between contractions.  overwhelmed in labor. There are three characteristics common to women who cope well: laboring women and how they actually cope with pain and stress in labor. Some cope well; others are The 3 R’s approach to childbirth preparation is a simplified approach based on observations of women.